I is for Idealism #AtoZChallenge
My 2025 A to Z Challenge theme is activism. I’ve been a Black Lives Matter activist for over a decade. I’m not an expert. I do have experience to share and I’m hoping to learn from your experiences, too. We’re all in this together.
Early on in my activism, a black woman expressed worry when I spoke about hope or optimism. She was afraid that when things didn’t turn out the way I wanted, and when I wanted, that I would get discouraged and quit. We negotiated and decided that determination was a better emotion to strive for since it would get me past the inevitable failures so that I could keep going.
Determination has served me well. Eventually, I realized that my determination sat on a foundation of idealism.
When I was growing up, I got negative messaging around idealism. I was taught that idealism was, at best, naive and, at worst, radical.
I was aware, even as a youngster, that this criticism of idealism conflicted with the words of Jesus that I was taught in Sunday School and at church.
- You shall love your neighbor as yourself. (Mark 12:31 and several other verses)
- Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you. (Matthew 5:44)
- If any one strikes you on the right cheek, turn to him the other also (Matthew 5:39)
Those verses combined with the parable of the Good Samaritan, gave me a vision for how the world could be. Since that vision was vastly different from the world that I saw, my idealism was the natural result.
I was called to work on ways to change the world into a more loving place. There is no deadline for this calling. I’m determined to strive until the vision is complete or I am no longer capable of striving.
Now that I’m 62, I don’t encounter criticism of idealism. No one seems particularly inclined to start an argument with an old lady holding a LOVE sign.
Does idealism contribute to the actions that you take in the world?
I think it’s wonderful to be idealistic. All the great things of this world have come from people who could imagine the best in humans. Love that Van Gogh picture. Never seen it before.
Why do you think they no longer argue with you about your idealism? Do you think it’s because you’re older or because people are more supportive of idealism?
I definitely think it’s because I’m older! Maybe idealism looks better when it’s combined with (presumed) wisdom?
I liked your reflections on idealism in your life, and how, it in truth, grounded your determination. I think we all need to be a good balance between idealism and realism – if we don’t believe the world can be better, we give up. That serves no one really.
I think idealism is important. We need dreams and stories first to thrive for; we need to imagine what “better” looks like. I also don’t like it when people say things like “you’ll jinx it” or “you’ll be disappointed.” I can’t just worry ahead of time and expect good things. You are right.
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